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In Loving Memory of My Father – Harold Kaplan (1919-2010)

by on Aug.10, 2010, under Announcements, Lived Inquiry

Today my father passed from this world of form. I have entered that thin-place between the worlds that is the altered state of loss and grief. The father that gave his seed for my birth into this world is gone. The image of my father within me is in flux, as projection, reality, and archetypal forces swirl loose from their intra-psychic moorings. Memories of all the moments of love, challenge, bonding, and all the perfectly imperfect father-son experiences dance in the silence between the world of doing and the world of being. My father always believed in my gifts and talents. His eyes lit up with joy and pride at the sight of all my endeavors. Though we were different in so many ways, I always felt his quiet acceptance. Every time I draw a line on a blank piece of paper I will remember sitting at his architectural drafting table. Every time I face a challenge I will remember how he never retreated or surrendered. I will always remember his charm and his love for life. And though he was a greatly imperfect being, as am I, there is nothing I now hold against him or against myself. All that was love shines bright; and all the illusions of fear and doubt within and between us have melted away. He danced this life the best he could, I danced with him the best I could, and his light and love shines through and into my mind and heart and spirit. I feel grateful that his suffering has ended; and blessed for having him as my father. Goodbye my father. Thank you for loving me so unconditionally and so beautifully imperfectly.

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  • Rhonda Kudesh

    Mark, I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your father. He was such a lovely man, kind, compassionate, caring and thoughtful of the smallest detail. I will never forget his welcoming me along on several scout outings so that I would not feel left out or left behind. I was most fortunate to have made his acquaintance, my life has been better for having known him.
    I hope this note finds you in good health and good spirits.
    Rhonda

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